Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Here are answers to some of the frequently asked questions about Kiss & Tell List.
How can I avoid Opportunists and Players?
Kiss & Tell List!
is a compilation of alleged opportunist, players and scam artists,
compiled by members of online dating sites, who feel they have been victimized.
These shared experiences are a reference resource
for online daters seeking precautionary measures.
The stories written are submitted to Kiss & Tell List!
free of charge.
As a member you can view these stories as often as you wish
by looking up the username and dating site.
This is an opportunity to save your time and energy
as well as insure your safety.
Exercise Safe Dating!
Once I submit a dating story, can I change it?
Yes, you can change any dating story you submitted.
When you select a story that was submitted with your email address,
the form will include an "Edit" button.
Click the "Edit" button to open up the story details.
Once you've made your changes, click the "Update" button to submit them.
You will be presented with a review screen, to confirm the story details are correct.
Click the "Save" button to save your changes.
Please note that the email address used to submit the dating story
must match the one used in your login profile,
in order to make changes to that story.
Only the "owner" of that dating story can make changes to it.
Is there any way to get alerts for new dating stories?
Alerts by Kiss & Tell List offer an easy, automatic way
to learn if there is a new dating story posted you're interested in.
You can be notified when any new dating story is submitted
or you can limit your alerts to a specific dating site or username.
When you set an alert, you're requesting an email notice based on a specfic alert criteria.
Let's say you're interested in all new dating stories about "Match.com."
Leave the username blank and select that dating site for your alert.
Whenever a new dating story for "Match.com" is posted, you'll be notified via email.
By leaving the username blank and selecting all dating sites,
you'll get alert notices on any new dating story that's submitted.
If you're interested in stories about "Johnny" on "Match.com", then specify both.
Your alert notices will be limited to that dating site and user.
You can set as many alerts as you need.
With our Kiss & Tell List alerts,
you do not have to be online to find out if there is a new dating story you're interested in.
Use Members/myAlerts to set your alerts.
You must be a Gold Member to set alerts.
What is SingleSpace?
A forum with decorum where you can state your case!
The SingleSpace Forum offers an opportunity to discuss
your online dating experiences with other members.
Topics range from dating sites to dating tips.
You can add your own comments to any topic and share your experiences.
How do I tell my side of the story?
OOPS! Are you innocent? EXONERATE Yourself!!!
Do you wish to vindicate yourself?
Use "Add my Story" to add your version or tell your side of the story.
You may also join Kiss & Tell List!
and add your feedback to any story.
What membership options are available?
Our Guest Membership is free and it's a great way to learn about
Kiss & Tell List.
With a Guest Membership, you can sample a wide range of information
including our online dating stories, dating tips, dating site information and forum topics.
Upgrade to our Gold Membership for unlimited access to: dating stories, story details,
search features, member comments on dating stories, and member feedback about online dating sites.
As a Gold Member, become involved in lively discussions about online dating sites and dating experiences
in our SingleSpace Forum.
Provide your own feedback about dating sites and online dating stories for other members.
How do I cancel my membership?
Use "myAccount" to change your membership.
When you cancel your Gold Membership, you are cancelling your membership subscription.
You can continue to use your membership until the current membership period expires.
Once it expires, your membership will be converted to a Guest Membership.
You can delete your Guest Membership using "myAccount".
Once you delete your Guest Membership, you will no longer have access to any member features.
We will also remove you from any membership information lists.
Are there gift memberships available?
Gift Memberships are available.
Please contact Us.
Protect a loved one with a Kiss & Tell List gift membership.
Will my name be disclosed?
No!
Your privacy is an important issue for us.
We protect your personal information.
Unless required by law,
Kiss & Tell List! will not
disclose your full name or any other personal information.
If you are submitting a story, you can use either your first name or username.
When members submit comments on stories, provide feedback on dating sites,
or participate in our Forum,
we use only their username (screen name) but no other details about who they are.
Check our privacy policy for details on
how we handle personal information.